Break ups happen in families, friendships and work situations acknowledge it so you can heal

 Outdated thinking is getting you no-where fast.

You have this way of looking at the world that filters out certain people and situations and now you've got to change your frequency you are missing out on to many things.  Staying in your head continuously reminiscing over bad memories and past betrayal will not free you and most certainly will not help you grow to the level spiritually you desire to be at.

 You are not in over your head

or in a situation you are ill prepared for it literally is your own insecurities ( yes some of those were handed to you by others) that are trapping you in this particular stagnant spot.  

You are on a Journey. You are searching for your Great LOVE. No one faults you for that. All the Divine is asking for is your unconditional self love to be what you focus on first because getting lost in your person will detour you from where you are supposed to be on your path. Oneness, that ultimate soulmate space you desire to be in is there for you to have just be patient there are a few more red tapes to go thru and trust me you will come out the better for it. 

 You may have just walked away from a connection that still has you feeling weepy and weak. It is ok to mourn the relationship. Like any connection it has to be released because it has had its own death. We all know that healing from a death can come in spurts or out of nowhere. trust the process and stop being in denial because it is a process if we could be better immediately folks would break ( leave, stop talking etc. ) up all the time.