Someone is a liar and they have ill intentions

 Oh boy they Know you are the total package. They have a attitude!! They want to have a conversation with  you to ask you have faith in them. They want to say they won't change for themselves why did you think they  would change for you? They say they aren't going to change no matter what  they say. They sabotage your relationship on purpose. even though they know their behavior is hurting you. They actually find it hilarious watching you flounder around trying to figure out how to get into their good graces. 

They honestly feel like they don't need you but they like having your energy and efforts to boost their ego because you always go the extra mile.They know they got you so why make more effort or feel insecure? 

They also don't feel like they need to heal cuz they are fine you are the one who needs help your obsessed with them so you  pathetic because you should know your to good for them. You accept them at their absolute worse and you won't believe them when they say they don't want you ( they don't get you heard them you was hoping it was their fear) so your no longer worthy of the Throne you both know you should be on. 

You are perfect though they can lie you accept everything they say even when you know its a lie and you lie to yourself to make yourself ok with their behavior. They feel if you wasn't such a liar you would have challenged yourself years ago and left them to rot. The idea you was being there for them because you loved them was alien to them. 

They know your connected to the Divine you always have been and you get TOO involved for their liking unless it somehow benefits them. They love your head game too. They even tell people thats your selling point. 

They know you are literally walking  abundance and they  are a laughing stock to their family and friends. Their exploits has burned bridges and they are blinded to that because everyone loves them. 

THEY TRULY ARE BAFFLED ABOUT WHY YOU DON'T WANT THEM ANYMORE. YOU HAVE FORGIVEN SO OFTEN BEFORE FOR THE SAME THING WHY NOT THIS TIME? 

As far as they are concerned you are their and you leave when they are done with you. They have fun with you who doesn't want to be around someone who makes them laugh. They don't want to be with you unless it its profitable and they really have no other options but if they could just fuck  and not have to deal with any thing else from you including the kids for some of you  then they will be happy. If you aren't that's your problem you know what and who you are dealing with.